We have been brought up in an environment where we say “you made me angry”. “You made me do this”. “I am doing this because of you”

After many years of self reflection, I realised all these above statements are powerless.

We become victims when we blame the other person for how we feel and for what we are thinking or doing. 

I believe you are never responsible for

1. What the other person is thinking
2. What the other person is feeling
3. What the other person is doing

So, what are we responsible for?

1. You are responsible for what you think
2. You are responsible for what you feel
3. You are responsible for what you do.

The only person who you can change in this world is YOU.

The only person you have control over is you.

The only person who can make you angry is you.

The only person who can make you feel loved is you.

Think about it, only you can give that feeling for yourself. Even when we say “you made me feel loved”, you are the person who is generating love inside of you.

We absolutely have zero control over the choices of the other person.

Let’s not blame the other person for what we are doing

Let’s take total control over ourselves and be empowered!

Let me know your thoughts.