Do you have trouble saying no?

Will you hurt the feelings of the other person?

Its ok to say no and to do what you want.

There is no way you can hurt someone’s feelings, only they can do that to themselves.

The only person you are incharge of is yourself and you can never make another person feel a particular way.

Go ahead and do what you want, and if someone is not comfortable with it, let them figure it out themselves!

September 12 2023

Recently, I had to say no to one of my friends. I was initially scared about my friends  reaction, and I was trying to be nice.

I realised, when I start trying to be nice and when I look good, I am somehow not being true to myself. It’s like I want something else on the inside, and I am doing something else outside. It wasn’t authentic.

I wanted to be authentic and do what I wanted to do and I wanted to say no. I decided that if my friend is unhappy about it, let her figure it out by herself.

There is no way I can hurt someone, only they can do that to themselves.

The only person I am in-charge of is myself and I cannot make another person feel a particular way.

It’s ok to say no, and to do what you want to do.

Let me know your thoughts..

Do you have trouble saying no?